I have been dating this guy for about a year. God has honestly told me that i dont need to be in a relationship with a guy right now and says i need to end it. I want to marry this guy i LOVE him to death and i want him to wait for me until God says its okayy to start dating, But that seems so selfish and i dont know what to do. I really dont want to break up with him and im just scared because i know im not listening to God. What do i do?
You are so right that it is selfish of you to ask him to wait around for you. Maybe you should talk to your minister or his wife and see what they might advise you to do.Are you sure it was God that told you that ? Why would God not want two nice Christian people to be together ? Sounds like maybe the Guy from down below might have a hand in this.Talk to you minister.He or she will know best for you and your boyfriend.
July 27th, 2010 at 10:54 am
you ignore that little voice and follow your heart.
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July 27th, 2010 at 11:23 am
Pray about it, maybe even talk to your pastor. Take a look at this guy: Is there bad stuff he does? Any bad habits? Is he Christian aswell? Then, once you have thought it over and prayed, tell him that it took alot of time to think.
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July 27th, 2010 at 12:03 pm
if you know for sure that it is Gods plan it will work out! it may not turn out the way you think/wanted but everything will be perfect in the end. just continue to prat about it and God will lead you to do what is the right thing.<333
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July 27th, 2010 at 12:40 pm
"God" is not going to tell you what to do, I really hope he has more important things to worry about, don’t you? You need to listen to what your heart says, if you are not sure then you obviously are not ready for a serious relationship. There is nothing wrong with just dating.
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July 27th, 2010 at 1:01 pm
You are so right that it is selfish of you to ask him to wait around for you. Maybe you should talk to your minister or his wife and see what they might advise you to do.Are you sure it was God that told you that ? Why would God not want two nice Christian people to be together ? Sounds like maybe the Guy from down below might have a hand in this.Talk to you minister.He or she will know best for you and your boyfriend.
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July 27th, 2010 at 1:06 pm
It’s better to follow God than to follow your heart. The Bible says in Jeremiah 17:9 that the "heart is deceitful above all things and beyond cure." If you know what God is telling you that you don’t need to be in a relationship than get out of your relationship! I know that is hard to do, but God’s plan is drastically better than you can imagine! "Trust in the Lord with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding." Proverbs 3:5
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Me, and my relationship with Christ.